There are many wonderful stories
about a beloved saint, St. Francis of Assisi. He was called to rebuild the
medieval Church, and he did both literally and spiritually. While he physically
rebuilt the crumbling San Damiano church and spiritually reformed the morally
astray medieval Church by cleansing objects of attachment by steadfastly
practicing the virtue of poverty.
St. Francis’ virtue of poverty,
which has eventually become the Catholic doctrine of evangelical poverty,
invokes the Japanese aesthetic sense of “wabi sabi”, which finds beauty
in simplicity, impermanence, and even in dilapidation.
Now, as a pastoral psychologist, I
find St. Francis’ sense of “wabi sabi” in his care for his companion,
Bro. Leo.
Applying “wabi sabi” sense in
psychospiritual care also reflects the clinical wisdom from Morita Therapy,
which was developed by a Japanese psychiatrist, Shoma (Masatake) Morita, an
avid Zen practitioner, during the 1910s. Though Morita never intended
Morita Therapy to be a religious (Zen Buddhism) activity, a Japanese Zen priest
and psychiatrist, Yugen Usa, first pointed out Morita Therapy’s similarities to
Zen Buddhism spirituality. And, through St. Francis’ Morita-Therapy-like care
for Bro. Leo’s depressive psychospiritual distress, I would like to indicate
Morita Therapy’s “wabi sabi” evangelical poverty aspect.
In the below dialogue between St.
Francis and his companion, Bro. Leo, St. Francis demonstrates some clinical
elements of Morita Therapy, along with Otto Kernberg’s treatment model of
narcissistic personality disorder. The way St. Francis assesses and treats Bro.
Leo’s depressive psychospiritual distress certainly bears Jesus’ teaching on
detachment, which also echoes Buddha’s teaching. But, Bro. Leo’s ego resists
St. Francis’ confrontation of Bro. Leo’s ego defenses. So, St. Francis further
ushers Bro. Leo to focus on Christ in order to practice detachment, in order to
resolve his psychospiritual distress. And, it is to attain psychospiritual “wabi
sabi” – appreciation of simplicity and beauty in human frailty and
imperfection.
Namely, the psychospiritual “wabi
sabi” is “poor in spirit”(Matthew 5:3), which St. Chrysostom regarded
as humility. As Zen Buddhism spirituality teaches “wabi sabi” to be an
important aspect of humility, St. Francis’ application of Morita Therapy
principles also has some Zen Buddhism spirituality bearings
The below dialogue between St.
Francis and Bro. Leo certainly makes St. Francis a Morita Therapy
practitioner.
*******
One day Saint Francis and brother Leo were walking down the
road. Noticing Leo was depressed, Francis turned and asked, “Leo, do you know
what it means to be pure of heart?”
“Of course. It means to have no
sins, faults or weaknesses to reproach myself for.”
“Ah,” said Francis, “now I understand why you're sad. We will always have something to reproach ourselves for.”
“Right,” said Leo. “That's why I despair of ever arriving at purity of heart.”
“Leo, listen carefully to me. Don't be so preoccupied with the purity of your heart. Turn and look at Jesus. Admire Him. Rejoice that He is what He is—your Brother, your Friend, your Lord and Savior. That, little brother, is what it means to be pure of heart. And once you've turned to Jesus, don't turn back and look at yourself. Don't wonder where you stand with Him.”
“The sadness of not being perfect, the discovery that you really are sinful, is a feeling much too human, even borders on idolatry. Focus your vision outside yourself, on the beauty, graciousness and compassion of Jesus Christ. The pure of heart praise Him from sunrise to sundown.”
“Even when they feel broken, feeble, distracted, insecure and uncertain, they are able to release it into His peace. A heart like that is stripped and filled-stripped of self and filled with the fullness of God. It is enough that Jesus is Lord.”
After a long pause, Leo said, “Still, Francis, the Lord demands our effort and fidelity.”
"No doubt about that,” replied
Francis. “But holiness is not a personal achievement. It's an emptiness you
discover in yourself. Instead of resenting it, you accept it and it becomes the
free space where the Lord can create anew. To cry out, ‘You alone are the Holy
One, you alone are the Lord,' that is what it means to be pure of heart. And it
doesn't come by your Herculean efforts and threadbare resolutions.”
“Then how?” asked Leo.
“Simply hoard nothing of yourself; sweep the house clean. Sweep out even the attic, even the nagging, painful consciousness of your past. Accept being shipwrecked. Renounce everything that is heavy, even the weight of your sins. See only the compassion, the infinite patience and the tender love of Christ. Jesus is Lord. That suffices. Your guilt and reproach disappear into the nothingness of non-attention. You are no longer aware of yourself, like the sparrow aloft and free in the azure sky. Even the desire for holiness is transformed into a pure and simple desire for Jesus.”
Leo listened gravely as he walked along beside Francis. Step by step he felt his heart grow lighter as a profound peace flooded his soul .
(“The Relentless Tenderness of Jesus”,
Brennan Manning (2004), pp. 209-211)
******
Through the above dialogue, St.
Francis rightly points out that our obsession with desire for perfection can
make it difficult for us to attain the perfection. Here is a paradoxical irony
that Bro. Leo is going through as his efforts toward the purity of heart only
makes him depressed, making it more difficult to work toward this goal.
It is because our obsession with the desire for perfection brings a
tremendous amount of mental and spiritual distress, as Bro. Leo had
experienced. It also makes a life very complicated.
St. Francis realized that what was
behind Bro. Leo’s depressive mood was Leo’s apprehension to perfection, his
obsession with the desire to be perfect. This leads to excessive fear of not to
be perfect, resulting in mental and spiritual afflictions.
This symptomological pattern is
similar to eating disorders, as what is common in Bro. Leo’s distress and
eating disorders is an apprehension to perfection and an obsession with the
desire for perfection.
The very first step for healing from
this kind of mental and spiritual distress is to accept the reality, which is
imperfect, as it is. This corresponds to Morita Therapy’s foundational concept
of accepting symptomology as it is – accepting “arugamamani”.
What Bro. Leo desires – the purity
of heart – is quite a tall order. Unless having a realistic discipline, our
sense of religious and spiritual piety can make us vulnerable to fall into the
kind of distress that Bro. Leo had experienced, as St. Francis, like a Morita
Therapy practitioner, points out.
In fact, the symptom of Bro. Leo is
rather uncommonly found among those who live a religious life, as their have
gotten “lost” in their pursuit of holiness, sacredness, and purity. Some of
these even become psychologically and spiritually pathological, often
exhibiting narcissistic symptomologies. They certainly need a competent and
compassionate pastoral psychological care.
This dialogue between St. Francis
and Bro. Leo offers a bit of insight for responding and treating
psychospiritual problems due to “getting lost” in pursuit of perfection.
These words of Bro. Leo: “Of
course. It means to have no sins, faults or weaknesses to reproach myself for”
in response to St. Francis’ inquiry: what it means to be pure of heart suggests
an association between narcissistic disposition and preoccupation with highly
idealized fantasies, including obsession with perfectionistic goals.
In this answer, there is an
indication of Bro. Leo’s pride and overconfidence – a faulty thinking and ego
defense to think that he knows what he is talking about and what he is seeking
in his life – the purity of heart. But, this symptom is a fear-ridden reaction
to his own fragile ego. It is also a clinical indication that he has
unrealistic expectation, which tends to be found among narcissists.
After all, narcissism is a form of
preoccupation of self due to fragile and insecure ego. Thus, Bro. Leo’s symptom
of preoccupation with the purity of heart is a manifestation of his
preoccupation with self. In fact, Bro. Leo’s depressive symptom due to his
preoccupation with the purity of heart (the perfection of heart) seems to be
narcissistic withdrawal. A person suffering from narcissistic withdrawal
tends to make himself or herself appear independent and proud but internally
insecure and vulnerable. Because of this inconsistency between confident
outlook and internal fear of his or her fragile ego, such a person can slip
into a depressive mood, as Bro. Leo did.
The way Bro. first responded to St.
Francis is as if he would make himself independent and confident in regard to
his understanding of what the purity of heart was. Bro. Leo was on his highly
idealized fantasy when he acted as if he were independent. But, in reality, he
was deeply insecure. That was why he was exhibiting depressive and withdrawn
appearance.
Bro. Leo’s insistence of having no
sins, faults or whatsoever to rebuke himself alludes to his narcissistic and
perfectionistic character.
With the way Bro. Leo answered his
question about the purity of heart, now St. Francis makes an assessment: “Ah,
now I understand why you're sad. We will always have something to reproach
ourselves for.”
Here, St. Francis was realizing Bro.
Leo’s depressive outlook was narcissistic withdrawal due to afflictions between
his independent and perfectionistic outlook and his ego vulnerability inside.
In a psychoanalytic view, Bro. Leo’s perfectionistic self-expression, insisting
that he knows what the purity of heart is, is his ego defense to protect his
vulnerable ego.
With these words, “Right, That's
why I despair of ever arriving at purity of heart”, Bro. Leo begins to
realize the ironic paradox that he has been struggling with: the harder he
tries to attain the purity of heart, the farther he gets from it, resulting in
more frustration and depression. He also begins to see how his own
preoccupation with the purity of heart contributes to his despair as a result
of St. Francis’ confrontation of Bro. Leo’s ego defense, bearing Kernberg’s
method of treating narcissistic personality disorder.
St. Francis said:
“Leo, listen carefully to me.
Don't be so preoccupied with the purity of your heart. Turn and look at Jesus.
Admire Him. Rejoice that He is what He is—your Brother, your Friend, your Lord
and Savior. That, little brother, is what it means to be pure of heart. And
once you've turned to Jesus, don't turn back and look at yourself. Don't wonder
where you stand with Him. The sadness of not being perfect, the discovery that
you really are sinful, is a feeling much too human, even borders on idolatry.
Focus your vision outside yourself, on the beauty, graciousness and compassion
of Jesus Christ. The pure of heart praise Him from sunrise to sundown.”
In this statement, St. Francis
confronts Bro. Leo’s tendency to become preoccupied with his perfectionistic
desire – the purity of heart. To prevent this “relapse” into his attachment to
the insecure ego, St. Francis urges Bro. Leo to focus on Christ, helping him
recognize that Christ is the one to rejoice for, to accept as his brother, as
his friend, and as his savior Lord. According to St. Francis, this
recognition is what it means to be pure of heart.
This shift of focus from Bro. Leo’s
ego needs to Christ is the second step toward healing, as the first step is to
accept his symptomology: he is depressed because of his fruitless pursuit of
the pure of heart, in St. Francis’ intervention, in light of Morita Therapy’s
progress. In regard to psychoanalytic view, this step is to gradually replace
Bro. Leo’s fragile ego with Christ as his primary self object in his object
relations. It is because his fragile ego only creates an narcissistic
illusion on attaining the pure of heart, while Christ is, indeed, the
perfect being of the pure of heart – by accepting Christ as his primary self
object, as his center.
What Bro. Leo needs to understand
here is that pursuing the pure of heart with his own efforts and fidelity alone
will not cut it in resolving his problem and in attaining his goal. He
must acknowledge that it is necessary to accept Christ, who is the embodiment
of the purity of heart (meaning being without sin) as his brother, friend, and
savior Lord, to rejoice for and with. And, this is what faith is, as faith is
our personal and intimate relationship with Christ. Salvation, in this case
with Bro. Leo, resolving his psychospiritual distress, cannot be attained
solely with his own efforts and fidelity unless he focuses on Christ and accept
Him as his brother, friend and savior to rejoice for and with.
This statement of St. Francis also
reflects the clinical foundation of Morita Therapy – delivering a patient like
Bro. Leo from apprehension by shifting his or her attention focus from ego to
another person in his or her object relations. In Bro. Leo’s case, it is to
shift his locus of attention from his ego to Christ, in order to resolve his
psychospiritual distress: depression.
What is behind Bro. Leo’s depressive
psychological problem is persistent anxiety associated with his obsession with
his desire to attain the purity of heart. This obsession is attributed to his
undisciplined ego or insecure ego.
St. Francis immediately sensed that
Bro. Leo’s psychospiritual distress was due to his preoccupation, obsession
with the purity of heart.
Buddhist spiritual wisdom teaches
that attachment to our goals and purposes , although having goals and purposes
in life is very important. Thus, the Buddhist spiritual wisdom is to help us
cultivate spiritual discipline to work toward goals and purposes of life
without becoming attached to them or obsessed with them by staying in the
middle way.
As it is the case with the Ignatian
spirituality, the Franciscan spirituality is pretty much like the Buddhist
spirituality, in regard to the discipline not to become attached or obsessed
with what we try to attain. But, Bro. Leo had become attached to his noble
goal: attaining the purity of heart, and suffered from psychospiritual distress
due to preoccupation, because of his pride and narcissistic disposition.
Psychoanalytically speaking, when we
become attached to our goals and purposes in life, it is not merely due to the
Type-A personality or perfectionistic character. It is not just a faulty
thinking pattern, either. Rather, it can be a manifestation of narcissistic ego
that subconsciously assumes perfection in seeking pleasure of supremacy. There
is a bit of sense of arrogance.
That is why it hurts more when such
a person finds himself or herself not attaining his or her goals and purposes,
which is the purity of heart for Bro. Leo.
Morita Therapy, which bears Zen
Buddhist spirituality, guides to resolve preoccupations and obsessions by
redirecting attention from ego to things outside ego. When he said, “Focus
your vision outside yourself, on the beauty, graciousness and compassion of
Jesus Christ. The pure of heart praise Him from sunrise to sundown” to Bro.
Leo, St. Francis was applying this Zen-like clinical principle of Morita
Therapy to help Bro. Leo overcome his preoccupation with the pure of heart.
Bro. Leo developed his preoccupation
with the purity of heart, which was his desire and goal, because of his
attachment to ego. In order to completely overcome his preoccupation with the
purity of heart, Bro. Leo had to conquer his own ego-attachment by removing
his locus of attention from ego. To Bro. Leo, a new object of his
attention outside his ego was the beauty, graciousness, and compassion of Jesus
Christ.
St. Francis further said,
“Even when they feel broken,
feeble, distracted, insecure and uncertain, they are able to release it into
His peace. A heart like that is stripped and filled-stripped of self and filled
with the fullness of God. It is enough that Jesus is Lord.”
With this statement, St. Francis is
confronting Bro. Leo’s narcissistic vulnerability, which manifests as his
perfectionistic and independent outlook as a seeker of the purity of heart.
This approach that St. Francis takes to address Bro. Leo’s narcissistic
withdrawal resembles Otto Kernberg’s treatment model of narcissism to
interpret Bro. Leo’s ego defense manifesting in his narcissistic
withdrawal.
Here, St. Francis is meeting with
Bro. Leo at his very ego vulnerability, acknowledging his broken, feeble,
distracted, insecure, and uncertain feelings, resulting from his insecure ego.
And, St. Francis is now guiding Bro. Leo to accept his vulnerable self and let
his own stripped vulnerable self with the fullness of Christ. This way, Bro.
Leo will not need to tap into his ego defense to protect his vulnerable ego,
because the divine mercy through Christ will stabilize his ego. This is like
St. Augustine’s saying (Confession , I.1), “You have made us for yourself, O
Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you”.
As long as Bro. Leo fails to shift
his attention from self to outside of himself, his narcissistic distress will
not be resolved. In fact, it will worsen. This is what Morita Therapy’s
understanding of Bro. Leo’s problem.
By guiding Bro. Leo’s locus of
attention from his ego to Christ, St. Francis is applying the clinical paradigm
of Morita Therapy. And, this is how I also apply principles of Morita Therapy
in my pastoral counseling practice, especially in treating persons with
psychospiritual distress due to narcissistic factors.
In response to St. Francis’ therapeutic confrontation of his
ego defense for his vulnerable ego and nudging to focus on Christ, instead of
his ego, Bro. Leo needed some time and space to process internally.
Then, after a long pause, Bro. Leo
said,
“Still, Francis, the Lord demands
our effort and fidelity.”
Ah, ha! Bro. Leo’s ego-centric
psychospritual forces are quite strong! In fact, Bro. Leo’s narcissistic ego is
still fighting back to St. Francis’s therapeutic intervention, like the
inertia.
Then, St. Francis responds:
"No doubt about that.
But holiness is not a personal achievement. It's an emptiness you discover
in yourself. Instead of resenting it, you accept it and it becomes the free
space where the Lord can create anew. To cry out, ‘You alone are the Holy One,
you alone are the Lord,' that is what it means to be pure of heart. And it
doesn't come by your Herculean efforts and threadbare resolutions.”
Of course, St. Francis is not going
to let Bro. Leo’s ego-centric forces to pull him back into the preoccupation
with the purity of heart and psychospiritual distress. It is to prevent his
“relapse” into his stubborn ego-centric forces and his ego attachment.
Bro. Leo’s ego defense made him say
that he still needs diligent efforts and steadfast fidelity, even accepting
that he is not so perfect. It seems that Bro. Leo’s vulnerable ego makes him
think myopically that paying attention to Christ the Lord would make him
preoccupied, again, or obsessed with something – if not necessarily with the
purity of heart, by arguing that the Lord demands efforts and fidelity.
To challenge such Bro. Leo’s ego
defense, in applying Kernberg’s treatment method, St. Francis further states
that the pursuit of holiness, the pursuit of the purity of heart, is not about
himself. Rather, the kind of efforts and fidelity that the Christ the Lord
demands on him is about discovering an emptiness in himself. Again, this is
Morita Therapy that St. Francis is applying here, together with Kernberg’s
treatment method for narcissism, as he further guide Bro. Leo to accept the
emptiness within.
St. Francis explains that accepting
the emptiness within for Bro. Leo means to accept that he himself alone cannot
attain his goal of the purity of heart. That is why St. Francis is encouraging
Bro. Leo to cry out to Christ for his mercy, because He is the only one with
the purity of heart.
In a way, St. Francis is telling
Bro. Leo, “Stop struggling! Just surrender yourself as you are to Christ the
Lord, if you want to strive for the purity of heart. Don’t get obsessed about
it, either. Just submit yourself to the Lord, because He is the one who has the
purity of heart!”
The emptiness that St. Francis was
encouraging Bro. Leo to focus on within him symbolically means the cracks and
holes that we have within. It is our shortcomings and imperfection. And, St.
Francis is now telling Bro. Leo that it is not something to become frustrated
with but rather to understand a space to let Christ fill.
This
reminds me of a simple Japanese tea bowl, which exhibits unique design, though
it gives a rustic unattractive appearance. It first appears unsophisticated, as
if it were for a poor man’s bowl. And, it was once cracked. So, the bowl was to
be discarded. However, the artist tactfully filled the cracks with clay with
different color, producing uniquely beautiful design, thus, giving the rustic
bowl very unique aesthetic value. This is a good example of “wabi sabi”
art in Japan, reflecting Zen Buddhism spirituality.
The emptiness in Bro. Leo is like
the cracks of the rustic Japanese bowl. And, Christ is like the clay with
different color to fill the crack. This way, St. Francis is suggesting that
Bro. Leo’s emptiness within is not something he is to despise of or to be
ashamed of, but rather to make him very unique by letting Christ fill.
Realization of this shall lead Bro. Leo to a “wabi sabi” appreciation
about himself.
“Then how?”
To this, St. Francis answers:
“Simply hoard nothing of yourself;
sweep the house clean. Sweep out even the attic, even the nagging, painful
consciousness of your past. Accept being shipwrecked. Renounce everything that
is heavy, even the weight of your sins. See only the compassion, the infinite
patience and the tender love of Christ. Jesus is Lord. That suffices. Your guilt
and reproach disappear into the nothingness of non-attention. You are no longer
aware of yourself, like the sparrow aloft and free in the azure sky. Even the
desire for holiness is transformed into a pure and simple desire for Jesus.”
Earlier St. Francis guided Bro. Leo
to accept Christ, to benefit from His mercy, because he cannot attain the
purity of heart with his own efforts and fidelity alone. It is also because
this acceptance is a necessary condition to relieve him from depressive
psychospiritual distress. Now, St. Francis is getting down to the nitty-gritty
about accepting Christ to benefit His salvific and healing effects.
For this, first, we need to cleanse
ourselves – emptying ourselves, so that we have nothing in us to get attached.
So, St. Francis is reminding Bro. Leo to denounce whatever that can cause his
ego-attachment, preoccupation, narcissistic phenomenon, ego defense reactions,
including narcissistic withdrawal.
In a way, St. Francis is treating
Bro. Leo a Buddhist monk novitiate, who was about to go on pabbaja.
Monks on pabbaja possess nothing as they sustain their lives completely
on the mercy of kindness of others.
In fact, in sending the seventy-two
disciples, Jesus also treated them like Buddhist novitiate monks to be sent off
on pabbaja.
Jesus said:
“Go on your way; behold, I am
sending you like lambs among wolves. Carry no money bag, no
sack, no sandals; and greet no one along the way. Into
whatever house you enter, first say, ‘Peace to this household.’ “(Luke
10:3-5)
When Jesus said, “Carry no money
bag, no sack, no sandals”, it symbolically meant that the disciples
should not have anything to get attached to, because attachment on their
mission journeys (pabbaja journey) would become distraction and distress.
Those who go on mission must practice detachment.
That is why St. Francis advised Bro.
Leo, “Simply hoard nothing of yourself; sweep the house clean. Sweep out
even the attic, even the nagging, painful consciousness of your past.”
Money bag and sack can be used to
hoard things. But, these can symbolically means a container for the weight of
past sin, regret, grudges, and whatever burdens Bro. Leo’s heart and
mind.
Having nothing to hold inside,
having no objects to be attached to, is the first step to accept Christ the
Lord as a brother, friend, and savior. And, this is the very necessary
condition to strive for the purity of heart, paralleling the Buddhist teaching
of “Tariki Hongan”.
Holding nothing to become attached
to inside self and cleaning any possibilities of attachment within leads to the
purity of heart, free from attachment. The freedom from attachment means the
freedom from preoccupation. Thus, it is the freedom from psychospiritual
distress. In Buddhist, the purity of heart, which means the freedom from
attachment and preoccupation, is anatta, the egoless self.
To understand St. Francis’ teaching
to Bro. Leo about “Tariki Hongan” of Christ or submitting self to
Christ, in Buddhist teaching, it is anatta that enables us to
fully embrace the greater being Jesus Christ, who is the perfect. According to
St. Francis, this acceptance and embracing itself is attaining perfection, in
spite of our own imperfection. In other words, we may attain perfection as we
rest ourselves in Christ, the perfect. We may attain the purity of heart as we
find ourselves in Christ, the pure of heart.
First, Bro. Leo needs to practice
detachment. He must let go whatever blocks the way of accepting Christ, such as
the nagging and painful consciousness of the past, as well as the weight of his
sins, just as he sweeps the house and even the attic.
The more Bro. Leo cleanses himself
within, getting rid of all objects of attachment, which also means
possibilities of preoccupation, the closer he gets to the pure of heart, as his
life becomes less complicated and simpler. This means that Bro. Leo is becoming
more “wabi sabi”, beautiful in his simplicity, because he is letting
Christ shine through his emptiness and cracks within as he let Christ in.
And, this is an outcome of St. Francis’ practice of Morita Therapy on
Bro. Leo.
Morita Therapy has been known for
its clinical efficacy in addressing paradoxical symptomology of mental distress
. The paradoxical symptomology is like the experience that Bro. Leo has
suffered: the harder a patient tries to attain a goal, the more frustration
s/he experiences as her/his efforts are not having any traction and making any
progress. Through a cognitive therapy aspect within it, Morita Therapy
addresses the patient’s unrealistic thinking or cognitive scheme. In such a
problematic thinking scheme, the patient is likely to strive for rather an
unattainable and unrealistic goals and purposes. Thus, such a scheme must be
corrected and converted to a more realistic one. For this process, the patient
needs to recognize her or his own faulty thinking patter, realizing that her or
his goals and expectations are unrealistic.
In Bro. Leo’s case, this recognition
occurs when he realizes that the purity of heart is not attainable through his
own efforts and fidelity alone. It was a realization that he, indeed, needs
Christ the Lord, having the Lord as his brother, friend, and savior, living a
Christ-centered life rather than an ego-centric life. It is, in fact, awakening
to this Japanese Shin Buddhist truth of “Tariki Hongan”, that turned the
tide of Bro. Leo’s condition.
While cognitive therapy addresses
and corrects a patient’s faulty thinking, which contributes to her or his
unrealistic goals and expectations, psychoanalytic perspective views problems
of unrealistic goals and expectations as a phenomena of narcissistic ego.
In this view, Bro. Leo’s unrealistic goal and expectation of attaining the
purity of heart solely through his own efforts and fidelity is a manifestation
of his narcissistic ego, which he probably is not aware of. The
narcissistic ego is an attachment to ego, because the ego is fragile. Such
insecure ego makes a patient extremely afraid to be vulnerable and to be seen
as vulnerable. Thus, it leads to multitudes of ego defense reactions. In Bro.
Leo’s case, it is to protect his fragile narcissistic ego, which is prone to
psychospiritual injuries, by setting up such a perfectionistic and unrealistic
goal for himself: attaining the purity of heart only through his own efforts
and fidelity. It is also an indication of his excessive pride, another aspect
of his ego defense.
Considering this psychoanalytic
perspective, I interpreted St. Francis’ intervention to Bro. Leo in light of
Kernberg’s clinical method of challenging ego defense in treating narcissistic
ego, which is the root of his psychospiritual distress.
By applying a psychoanalytic
perspective, such as Kernberg’s, Morita Therapy can become even more effective
in treating paradoxical symptomology resulting from narcissistic ego. And, I
have explained this through the St. Francis’ therapeutic dialogue with Bro.
Leo.
As a Japanese Catholic and a
practitioner of Morita Therapy, finding some elements of “wabi sabi” and
Morita Therapy, along with Japanese Buddhist teaching, in St. Francis’ Catholic
spirituality is a tremendous joy.
The way St. Francis treated Bro.
Leo’s psychospiritual distress and ego defense problem through Morita Therapy
principles transformed him from a narcissistically pious man to a humble man of
the “wabi sabi” spirit. In awakening to the “wabi sabi” spirit –
the beautiful spirit of poverty that Jesus has taught as a beatitude,
though St. Francis’ application of Morita Therapy, Bro. Leo’s soul has not
become more alive as it can breathe the Holy Spirit better.
*****
The
Lord bless you and keep you.
May
He show His face to you and have mercy.
May
He turn His countenance to you and give you peace.
The
Lord bless you!
The
Blessing of St. Francis of Assisi to Bro. Leo
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